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One simple way is to concentrate on your performance in a specific area for about a week. Telephone manners, for example. How often do you talk too long, speak abruptly, fail to identify yourself, keep people waiting, display impatience with the operator or fail to return a call? Or driving a car, wholesale replica designer handbags, why not monitor yourself sternly for aggressive driving, unnecessary horn blowing, follow too closely, failing to yield the right of way?
One difficult but essential thing to remember is to refuse to let other people’s bad manners lead you to retaliate in kind. I recall a story told by a young man who was in a car with his father one night when a driver in an oncoming vehicle failed to dim his lights. “give him the brights, bad!” the young man urged in exasperation. “son,” replied the father, “that driver is certainly discourteous and probably stupid. But if I give him the brights he’ll be discourtesous, wholesale designer handbags and blind and that’s a combination I don’t want to tangle with!”
The second requirement for improving your manners is to think in a courteous way. In the long run, the kind of person you are is the result of what you’ve been thinking over the past wenty or thirty years. If your thoughts are predominantly self directed, a discourteous person is what you will be. If on the other hand you train yourself to be considerate of others, if you can acquire the hbit ofimdentifying with their problems and hopes and fears,good menners will follow almost automatically.
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